The average lifespan for men in the United States is now 75 years old while for women it is 82 years old. The need for nursing home care has increased proportionately. There are no signs of this trend lessening as baby boomers are either caring for aging parents or are in need of facilities themselves.
We will discuss the top 10 reasons that caregivers have for deciding to place their parent in a skilled nursing facility.
Poor Health
There comes a time when a son or daughter can no longer provide the proper medical care needed for the parent. The parent’s health reaches a point where professional, 24-hour care is necessary.
No Relatives Living Nearby
Many older parents live alone in their own homes with no family living near them. This situation becomes critical when the parent is no longer able to take care of himself.
No Community Support
There was a time when older people could count on the neighbors for support. With high crime rates, especially against the elderly, the risk is too great.
No Church Support
Again, there was a time when there was a special ministry for the older members to count on the church for help with basic needs. Now most all church members are busy with jobs and families of their own. Even other seniors work into their 70’s and have no spare time.
Unable to Maintain Home
Your parent may find maintaining their home or apartment nearly impossible because of health problems or lack of finances.
Neighborhood Unsafe
If your parent is living in an older neighborhood, it may have become infested with crime. It is no longer safe for your parent(s) to live alone.
No Longer Drives
If your parent no longer drives a car, he or she needs someone to drive them to buy groceries and to appointments. This can be very expensive if they must hire someone to drive them around.
Trouble with Personal Care
When your parent reaches the point of not being able to take care of their personal hygiene or cook meals for themselves, she needs a nursing home or a senior living situation if she isn’t in need of medical care.
Dementia
If your parent suffers from any type of dementia he will need 24-hour care even if he is physically healthy otherwise.
Loneliness
Many older people develop depression due to loneliness. If your parent has no interaction with other people, it may be time for elder care facility.